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happened to me, it fucking sucks
i'll never forgive myself

what if she was the one...

>get invited to smoke weed with two 4/10s university in the same apartment complex, alone
>realized I could have banged them both at the same time years later

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I guarantee you the feeling that nobody has ever been attracted to you is far worse.

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There is no 'the one'.

Isn't it good? If I knew that even just one girl liked me it would at least mean I'm not completely unlovable

There is definitely a "one" who is mathematically the most compatible with you.

Thinking otherwise is a cope.

It's worse to have someone attracted to you for a time and then they suddenly stop.

>but the cashier smiled at me

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No, your post, is cope. Are you going to tell me you don't need to improve yourself and there'll still be someone for you? Grow up. There is no 'the one' There are only some people who are tolerable enough to go through things together.. the happiness that goes with it, comes from both your efforts, not because of some magical fated bullshit.

You probably need to drop some substantial pounds and stop acting like a creep then. Because unless you're a complete mutant, women will notice you and pay some kind of attention.

I'm over 300 pounds, balding and frown all the time and women still actively Hit on me. I've even had women hit on me after I skipped showering for a fucking week for christ sakes.

The main issue a lot of your kind has is FAR too might standards. So you'll walk past the chubby weird little chick who'd happily suck your cock and creep on the 8/10 you never had a chance with instead.

Another thing is that self pity can be so strong as to become an absolute in your personality. So you'll see a woman smile at you, and assume they're laughing at you (just for one example) you so overwhelmingly self victimize that you see only a distorted version of reality and assume no one wants you. That assumption being taken as a 100% absolute fact in your own mind.

What helped me was just paying attention and talking to people. You eventually relearn how you perceive yourself and you get better.

Unless you really are a 400 pound creeper mutant. Then you need to put in a lot more work.

DAMN YOU, AUTISM!!!!

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Had a friend in middle school that I liked and she probably liked me. We'd talk on the phone and saw some movies together. My mom yelled at her one day and she stopped talking to me.

Thanks mom.

A girl flirted with me and wanted to go outside and alluded to kissing.
I didn't realise until I was home.

I don't even want kinos for this feel, I try and repress these memories.

>18 years later and you realize why that girl grabbed your ass

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Jesus you must be grotesque lol

I was stuck in this type of rut for a while but I realized I was getting so desperate that any human interaction by a female I thought meant they liked me. I focused on improving myself and not chase interaction. Now, not everyone is going to find "the one" and it hurts because of the basic biological function of finding someone to pass your genes with, but if you become happy with yourself it improves your chances.
Also, don't hope that it'll happen suddenly but also don't be that guy actively finding it any place he can. It has a higher chance of happening if you put in just enough effort that it doesn't consume you.

Not the original guy but I'm in the same boat and I'm a relatively fit, normal-looking 26 year old. I just don't have any distinguishing features so I tend to blend into crowds, and I have a tendency to ignore women by default so I don't get any attention.

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So the odds of finding the " one" is 1 in 3,5 billion give or take. Yeah it was totally that one person you met...

Usually when I ignore women they flock to me as if I can cure their daddy issues, how do you ignore them?

Yep. Literally always heard jokes about my looks, since 5th grade.

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fucking delete this

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Women aren't even worth the effort. That's not even cope I just can't see how reading 5 self help books a day , lifting for 3 hours dropping all dorky hobbies etc can be worth it. I have friends and none of them ask this much from me.

Fucking hell.

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In senior year this one sophomore girl sits next to me on the bus, I'm reading comics and during the bus ride, she fell asleep leaning against my shoulder.
That was the last time I ever interacted with her.

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The key is to find someone who is willing to at least tolerate your dorky hobbies.

>how do you ignore them
To the greatest extent possible without physically walking into them. No eye contact, never initiated a conversation, etc. I'm socially normal with men and older women but when it comes to women my age I basically pretend they don't exist, always have.

Ah I see where our technique differs.
I acknowlege their prescence by looking then I start ignoring them, kind of like giving attention then taking it away.
It works on dogs too.

>that girl that always sat in front of me
>thought she secretly loved me

we never interacted a single time

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>Cute older cousin was going to do things to me
>Mom caught her before it could happen
>Mom now wonders why I'm awkward around women

Thanks mom

tfw I was in this thread.

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>in computer class
>sit next to super popular girl that I don’t know
>talk to her all year and help her out in class
>gave me her number and told me to call her sometime
>never called her and never thought anything of it
>15 years later
>think about this
kek not even mad

remembering the time cute girl at grocery store smiled at me but i just looked down at my feet

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Yes, a person who shows interest in you has more of a chance of being the one for you than someone who hasn't.

Is this a serious post?

I can’t tell if it’s better or worse that he found out ten years later. I imagine way worse.

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The point is it's entirely possible to be relatively normal and still go through life with no attention from women whatsoever, all it takes is the right disposition. You don't need to be a genetic freak, just socially reserved.

Oh are you being theoretical?
I don't think it's that normal to just not talk to a whole sex their age, it implies the person has issues.

Probably. For a while the only thing stopping my self-esteem from completely vanishing was if I'd catch a look from a girl occasionally

Statistically its almost impossible to find the one... thats my point.

Not being upset about it 15 years later makes you a well adjusted human being. Blowing 15 years ago is what made you a loser.