for me? its improoving
For me? its improoving
If you're a 24 years old friendless virgin, there's no coming back from this. Not a single girl will ever take you seriously.
Same
Don’t be ugly and you’ll be fine
audiobooks dont count.
Not even sure that would be enough if you have a lack of social skills like maybe 90% of incels.
Which language should I learn first?
Python
Japanese
english
THIS!
>quite drinking
I feel that user
The language of love
German or japanese. Spanish if you happen to be a burger like me. That goes first, then you can learn any at your leisure
If that was true you wouldn’t be on 4 Chan at all
Why would you want to communicate with beaners
Reminder that NoFap will never recover from this
why would you think that?
I think the greatest proof of this is Mark Zuckerberg, a guy who has amassed incredible wealth and power yet still can't escape his status as a beta fucking loser.
Sort of, even if you have some friends but have not had a single relationship or kissed a girl at 24 any decent looking girl will never be attracted by you
Yeah it's a waste of time. £100k cash from btc, studying medicine, came from poverty. I'm 23 yo and this is what I've missed out on, either from sacrificing time to study or living in poverty to blow money on btc:
>never left the country
>never had a virgin gf
>didn't have hobbies until recently
>no iphone, car, any sort of luxuries
>never got plastered at the local park
>never started shit before barely managing to escape
What a waste of time.
Right in the heart
This is totally true. Self-improvers always get burned out in the end because they're trying to force things that even normalfags never had to force. It only makes them more repulsive and out of touch with society.
>tfw I hate the normalfag world and what normals deem "life" yet I still manage to find great beauty and satisfaction in art, nature, music etc
the main reason I never got along with people is because I've never found people who saw things the way I did
Soz I might have been unclear in autistic rant. I'm at Oxford so workload insane as you might expect. I'm not saying to be a turbo neet loser, but happiness doesn't come from having a fancy education, status and lots of money, it comes from having sex, friends, travelling and adventures.
I really wish went to an easier uni so I had more free time and blew my btc at the time instead of pointlessly saving money for when I don't even notice having any extra.
This is image is absolutely correct, sadly.
>even if you have some friends but have not had a single relationship or kissed a girl at 24 any decent looking girl will never be attracted by you
Is it that bad? I always thought having friends could make it easier.
Once you stop socializing and having sexual for like two years you’ll feel like a virgin again trust me. I fucked like 20+ girls in college but haven’t touched a woman in years
> sex, friends, travelling and adventures.
it doesn’t come from any of that either
>will quit smoking
pathetic
so what you just rot?fuck off
Spend your savings on hookers, blow and traveling then.
This is only half true. If you are a 3/10 ugly person with shit genetics then yeah, nothing short of becoming rich will save you.
However, for average or slightly above average guys that have debased themselves with poor habits/addiction, improving absolutely will make a big difference in your life.
The point he's making is underlying mentalities really don't change. An awkward fucking weirdo millionaire suffers almost as much as an awkward fucking weirdo NEET.
Self improvement is masturbation.
>this dumbass still doesn't realize he was trolling
Fury is a devout Christian, he was mocking coombrain retards
you go to bed forever
>tfw dabbled in every thing that normalfags enjoy and didn't like any of them
I don't know what's the point of trying
having sex is 1000x more satisfying then having £100k. Having sex in a closed tescos overnight with some trampy girl from tinder was 1000x more enjoyable then opening my oxford acceptance letter. I wasted my early 20s before I realised this, thank god I stopped.
Self-improve can work at some level but nofap is the cringiest thing ever. These dudes really think that not jerking off will make them more attractive or improve anything in their life. Except if you cum 5 times a day, there's no point doing this.
>living in the former shadow of your highschool days forever
No fucking thanks. I got my first gf when I was 21 and my happiness and confidence skyrocketed.
I'm either this or avoidant. I have features of both but don't really fit in either fully
that’s a really poor way to chase after what you think is happiness user
For me, it's Brandon Iron, who was paid a fortune to fuck every famous porn star you've ever heard of and then hung himself because he was 5'6"
What kind of lack of social skills?
Don't listen to learn C#. Become a ServerSideChad. Join the elite men who sit around thinking all day on how to improve, and do it. Be the backbone of all development, become C#.
Focus on your career because this is at least something you can improve FOR REAL. You'll never attract mentally well-ajusted girls, deal with it.
If you have to ask then you're who he's referring to
yeah sure thing bro
for me it's angie varona in her prime.
>they're trying to force things that even normalfags never had to force.
Like what?
After going on several 1-2 month nofap streaks it is extremely obvious that most of the criticism against it comes from sour grapes addicts rationalizing their own failure and inability to control their addiction.
Almost nobody who manages to go 30+ days claims there is no benefit. There very clearly is. The honest question is: is the toil of abstaining worth the payoff. When coomers in denial claim it "does nothing at all" then you know they are simply addicts approaching the issue dishonestly as a way to COPE.
Because this place is a time sink
>Dudebro Mcnormie
>drinks, eats fast food, never works out etc
>still has a girlfriend and gets laid when he wants
>user
>lifts, doesn't drink, fell for the "self improvement meme"
>still a lonely virgin
Face it, no amount of sobriety or weight lifting can compensate for an autistic personality
sneed
Such is life in the Zone
Finding out the right timing to make the first move, having a sense of humor, knowning when you have to shut up and listen to her, to be able to sexualize things... In fact, the list is long.
>Not C++
Stupid faggot
same, one of the hottest girls EVER
Nofap has no benefits
The post that saved Yas Forums
it also dulls your reward-center over time, which can be associated with a profound lack of motivation to perform even small tasks
>implying a coomer-brain can be convinced to stop raping himself
C# is easier and desu better unless you're writing HUGE things that need better garbage collection for memory allocation. Severely doubt anyone on Yas Forums will make a triple A game.
FPBP. No highschooler had to self improve to get a girlfriend
Probably Spanish or Chinese.
The reason why I say this is because people who speak those languages tend to live in english-speaking countries
Getting attention, creating social bond, just being relevant.
you don’t think tinder dates get tired after 20th one? sex is great, I paid for a hooker just last night but don’t pretend you will find lasting joy from other people like that
Based and blackpilled
nofap is probably the best thing you can do for yourself. and I'm a self improvement sceptic. for me when I go past 2 weeks on nofap I just start to feel generally more normal and can relax. there is a lot of bullshit self improvement that will likely just wear you out and make you stressed but nofap is a healthy way to adjust yourself without excessive obsession of needing to "do" something
No because it all depends of your kind of view. What can be considered lack of social skills?
Okay then. Then I’m safe.
I had a puberty delay, I looked like a 11 years old kid when I was 18 years old.
Now, I'm a 23 years old virgin but I'm also 6'4 and attractive enough to get regular eye contact from girls. What I am supposed to do?
The joke is that he is doing that alone because he is a fat neckbeard?
Damn
Talk to them
If you are attractive then you should get attention from girls
Where do you get this eye contact?
>attractive enough to get regular eye contact from girls
LMFAO
you know attractive people "attract" people to themselves right?
>tfw too lazy for suicide
>for me when I go past 2 weeks on nofap I just start to feel generally more normal and can relax
How? Last time, I did a 2 weeks nofap streak, I texted every escort in my town to know about their prices. I was so mad and horny that I had to stop going to the college library because every couple was driving me crazy, then, I jerked off and everything went back to normal.
Yes, I have some friends and go out and sometimes meet female friends of my male friends but if they're my age they're mostly already have stable boyfriends, even if sometimes I even get along with them the first few times I see them, after they realize who I am they immediately lose interest even in going out with me and other friends because I creep them out
What if one is try to improve for himself?
Getting fit
Being healthy
Living healthy
Losing fat
Becoming a better version of yourself
Having goals and ambition
Learning new skills and language
Because you like becoming the person you always wanted to be?
>_oo_
>_oo_er
>_oo_ing
I didn't realize someone was writing my biography
I stuck my dick in an ugly girl 4 (I was 20) years ago so my “friends” at the time would stop berating me for being a virgin
Now I actively isolate myself from having friends and haven’t had sex since. School, work, weed and video games. That’s all I have.
I literally spent the entire 2010s as a neet on Yas Forums. even barring some miracle turn around of perspective and life circumstance I think I'm permanently damaged
It's impossible to forget the shit you see or read in the internet, as soon as i realized that i knew it was over.
So its fine if you're 25?
Never let other people discourage you from improving yourself, just make sure that you're doing it for yourself and not for other people. I learned to slavrunes, and now have enjoy a plethora of slav kino, and literature. Discouragers often 'improve' just for attention, just to get a girl, etc.
There isn’t any hope? How do you know? What if the person goes back to uni and meets and makes new friends and catching all the things he missed?
The harsh based truth.
25 year old khv but pretty sure im asexual/aromantic or whatever
Honestly never cared much and I jack off like once a week
You already know it might happen to someone out there, but it's not gonna happen to you.
this is a larper who makes this fantasy in a lot of threads, just ignore him. poor dude
But what if you go back to school and meet new people? Sure you would be 25 when you start but...
I have bad social anxiety sadly.
College mostly but the 20 years old secretary of my dermatologist was so into me that she called my mom (she didn't have my personal number) to ask her what I was doing for a living and if I was single.
My teenagehood insecurities gave me a generalized anxiety disorder. So, they see I look anxious, have no friends and they're too afraid to talk to me. Usually it goes this way, a girl makes obvious eye contact during a few days, then she sits next to me, one time, two time, then it front of me, touches her hair and stuff until she finally gives up.
How do I overcome my social retardation?