To me it never happened.
And let me be clear, by ''hit on you'' I don't mean smiled at you once or laughed at one of your jokes, I mean straight up approaced you and asked your number or in facebook or tinder sent you a message first.
To me it never happened.
And let me be clear, by ''hit on you'' I don't mean smiled at you once or laughed at one of your jokes, I mean straight up approaced you and asked your number or in facebook or tinder sent you a message first.
I've been hit by women (including my sister and my upperclassmate crash)
Coworker told me "I want you to creampie me" once but I'm pretty sure she was joking.
I don't mean "hit" as physically attack you.
I mean try to initiate a romantic relationship with you.
Often, but only in big gatherings, so in case it doesn't go well she and her group of friends can move somewhere else never to be seen again, but that's just my theory.
>I mean straight up approaced you
Yes.
>and asked your number or in facebook or tinder
No, and I've never seen a girl do this to another guy either.
Had a qt tell me she wanted to be the mother of my children but I think she was making fun of me
Yes but she looked and acted like HaileyTheTurtle so it does't count
Yeah, plenty of times. Always in-person, I don't have a presence on social networking or dating sites. I'm actually a good-looking guy and come off as normal at first. The problem is they have no confidence when it comes to sex or intimacy, so I can never seal the deal.
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Yeah she used to text me all the time but I kept making low effort replies until she got the message and stopped. She was ugly though. Also not the only time something like this happened, I almost lost my virginity at a party but thats a kinda long stor.
>they
Should correct that, I meant that I have no confidence when it comes to those things
Yes.
No really, I'm pretty sure she was. We used to say all sorts of dirty shit to each other but it was mostly to pass the time, I don't think either of us were particularly attracted to one another.
A girl in the place i work at gave me chocolate Many times. Eventually i opened a notepad app in my phone and i give it to her without saying anything. She wrote down her number. Shes blowed me twice since then
I was new at work when a fat 30 year old woman kept inviting me over to her desk so she can show me the ropes. Said she'll give me valuable experience. She gave off crazy vibes so I just politely rebuffed her until she gave up.
Yeah, several times. I'm 6'3 in a city with an average male height of 5'9, and I have good confidence and social skills. It happens sometimes.
only guys, unfortunately. when I use to work at the self check out at Walmart this faggot customer shouted "oh my God he's so sexy." his friend or boyfriend told him to be quiet and he said "no I speak my mind that guy by the register is cute!" I just ignored him and pretended that I didn't hear him. when I went to help a customer he walked past me and said "bye cutie." I had to resist the urge punch him in his face. another time a guy's sister came up to me and asked if I was gay. told her no and walked away. The sister was pretty cute and thought she was gonna hit on me. looking young in your 20's can be a blessing and a curse.
How do they usually proceed?
Yeah quite frequently back in the day, I used to bant a lot with female coworkers and it always resulted in them throwing indirect sexual hints and messages at me, of course we were only "joking", but I guess they actually meant it more often than not
My cousin unironically
I studied in Germany last year and an actual 9/10 American girl kept flirting with me but she was so attractive that I interpreted it as joking, because I didn't think there was any chance she could actually like me. Eventually she just straight up made a move on me and we ended up having a turbulent relationship for the rest of the term full of her having mental breakdowns, fights, her being paranoid and genuinely ruining my time there, but i didn't leave her because I didn't see myself as good enough to leave her and also she threatened to kill herself if I left numerous times.
All in all it was a lesson for me because the thing is, I hated her personality from the moment I met her. I knew from before we were in a relationship that she was narcissistic, judgemental and generally a vindictive person, but I chose to get with her because I felt that I was too unattractive to turn her down, if that makes sense. And the annoying thing is that I later found out from other friends that the girl that I actually liked, her friend who was a shy asian canadian qt with whom I shared tons of interests, had a huge crush on my and this was apparently so widely known that everyone teased her about it, and the American girl made a move on me because she knew she had competition.
tldr; dont be such a coomer
They usually start with "hi." I should clarify that it's usually matter of us being in the same space and small talk naturally starting, but they escalate and attempt to close. I'm in the habit of talking to strangers constantly, and I forget who started what conversation. The best close I've gotten was "I'm enjoying this conversation, I'd like to continue it over coffee or a drink." Sometimes I get more vulgar approaches, which I'm not into. "I just got divorced, and I'm trying to have some fun," "In an hour we can show you a good time," things like that. I remember one drunk chick kept saying "you're so handsome" and tried to grab my dick. That was a bit too forward for my taste. I have some other memorable ones like a Chinese woman telling me that dating is good for stress and asking if I like Chinese women. A few months ago, a chick outright made a beeline towards me and said she's drawn to me. I also get asked for social media info sometimes, but I don't know what the intention is there.
Where I am, and I mean my city; not my country, the gender roles are somewhat reversed, and women are the ones that take the initiative. I've never been the one to initiate anything. Every time I've had sex it's because they've come to me.
Give me the name of that city sven , I am a virgin and want to finally lose my virginity.
Girls here never initiate it.
Oh yeah, quite a few times, but in most of them I've pussied out because they were too crazy, or too attached, or too ugly or too forward
I've been able to pull off better girls when they didn't like me and I had to make they do. Think I work better that way
Meant for
Interesting. Looks like you're a relatively handsome guy, and perharps American girls are much more easy going too. I don't think I've ever been talked to that way.
it doesn't fucking exist
Sven there is just a Chad, this happens to any good looking man
A lot actually, control yourself sluts.
I'm actually not very handsome, and I've been called ugly plenty of times. Latin American girls seem to find me extremely attractive, but others not so much. Like I said originally, I'm significantly taller than average here, but it's honestly my personality and charm that does it for me. I'm just very confident and sociable, and I tend to make people laugh. I've also been told that I give off a vibe or whatever, but I don't know how to explain that. I think people can unconsciously feel others' confidence. But you might have a point about cultural differences, though I wouldn't know, as I've never been to France.
I'd like to visit America just to witness those cultural differences. But I'm pretty sure small talk would make me uneasy.
Uppsala. You have to be a student though. It's a university city. It's probably similar at other university cities like Lund, Linköping or Umeå but non-student cities like Stockholm will be just like any other part of the world.
My face is okay, my jawline is great, my shoulders are somewhat broad but I'm average height (180) and my body is SHIT. I've never gone to a gym in my life. I have aspergers but I'm really social. I go clubbing about 1 sometimes 2 times a week. There are some really really pretty girls with absolutely TERRIBLE taste in men. I've brought a few of them home. It's a bit of a numbers game. Your chances of getting lucky increase if you go out more. It will also get better over time when you start getting comfortable in the environments where you're likely to get some. You'll start dropping less spaghetti. I didn't get approached a couple years ago but it's different now.
yeah three times
first one was a weeb, i rejected her, i was fucking retarded
second one was a weeb too, i rejected her because im fucking retarded
third one was a lesbian looking one (fat, short haired), i wasnt retarded that time