Walk away, user. You will be forever expecting and that's no way of living.
He’s right you know. Don’t force something that’s not there
That is what I did, but her behavior confused me about my own ability to see if someone actually likes me or not. Because all this time I thought that she was the one that was more into me, than I was into her.
She's an emotionally manipulative cunt and you need to leave immediately.
wow an actual based reply itt
didn't expect that
She's pretty obviously hung up in someone else who friendzoned her and is using you as a teddy bear to deal with it. Brake the chain of friendzoning and move on.
Good, you're starting to understand that you don't know anything at all.
I hate to tell you this, but modern dating is a live and learn prospect and that requires you keep trying and keep taking risks. The important things are to learn from your mistakes, remember what red flags look like and not internalize other people's baggage as a mistake or flaw of your own. Good luck and don't forget to wear a rain coat.
Where did we go so wrong brehs?
The problem is that as a society we don't really teach younger people how relationships work and how to work through conflicting emotions. It's just assumed that love comes naturally/magically when you meet "the right one" But that's not true for most people, relationships take a lot of work and figuring out the difference between what you think you want and what you actually need from them takes a lot of hard introspection so a lot of people end up making the same mistakes over and over because they're trying to gratify their wants rather than satisfy their needs.
For most of human history this was less of a problem because who you were going to be with was decided for you, but in most cultures you were still given some instruction on how to be in that relationship. In the West in particular we've dismantled those systems but we haven't replaced them with anything other than a handful of feel-good narratives left over from old literature.
This guy giving a little boy girl-advice is child-abuse.