How can I tell if my mom was trying to groom me as a kid? The more I’ve been thinking back on my childhood and I’m having a hard time telling if my mom just has no sense boundaries and just doesn’t know when she’s being inappropriate, just didn’t care to correct my behavior, or was actively grooming me. So from about ages 4-10 I slept in the same bed as my mom pretty much every night. At about age 7 I started experiencing erections and would often rub my dick on stuff to get hard, and because my parents always had told me what sex was from a very early age, 5 I think, which while I was confused by the mechanics at the time because I thought the vagina was a slit where the pee came out, I still did know what my penis was and how it worked. So being the curious little guy I was I had a tendency to press my chub against my mom whenever we spooned. For whatever reason or another she never seemed to show any response, even when she was awake. At about age 8 I had started understand what attraction was and understand what constituted sexual contact, and what the significance of each erogenous zone was. So I started to grope my moms breasts, ass, and vagina in her sleep and she never seemed to move while doing so. So what I can’t figure out is is if she let it happen because she wanted it to as a means of grooming me without having to do anything herself, was totally unaware (somehow), or just didn’t know how to process it so she just let it happen. I low key hope it was the grooming because for someone who normally understands proper conversational boundaries between family members she sure seems to be open to talking about our sex lives together. And also last time I visited her she was giving me the google eyes the whole time we were in private.
How can I tell if my mom was trying to groom me as a kid...
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Nah. I should have formatted it in greentext though. I just want someone else’s opinion. I low key kinda wanna see how far I can go now as an adult. I just gotta make sure that she was intentionally grooming me without trying to think I want to go after her and ruin her. If anything it gives me motive to move in with her and current husband. I’ll have a safe and comfy home, a close bond with my family that my life has been lacking for a very long time, and plenty of crazy good pussy. Like I know she definitely knows what she’s doing based on some of the stories she’s told me. Honestly it makes me wanna see how good I am.
U have a very incestuous mother. Do u want to have sex with her?
Her and my step mom have been my primary gal fantasies from about the age of 15. Never my sister because she’s a mega dyke and I personally don’t find lesbians attractive. I also have quite a few cousins who I’ve been super into since I was about 12-13. Tall, thing, Blonde hair blue eyes type of family, on both sides.
she tryin to fuck
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Complete family of incest. I'm working thru the same things with emdr.
What’s your advice, user. How should I bring it up? If I’m wrong I don’t want to make it seem like she raised a hopeless pervert. But seeing as how she was most likely molested by her dad, I’m willing to bet she wanted to do the same with me but could never fully commit out of fear and shame.
We need a pic of your mum for science
Do you think you’d be able to track down nudes? I’m kinda sketch giving out her face and info but god damn it would be so amazing
get drunk with her, give her the same eyes she been giving u, bring up sex, flirt. push the envelope
So, like, say for example were alone in the house together, in the living room watching tv, like put my arm around her? Stuff like getting physically close, but in a relatively ambiguous manner so I can deny any ill intentions?
She's probably traumatized by her upbringing, if you grew up normal with a few puzzling moments props to her, she broke the circle of abuse. Was she also a single mom?
Of she broke the circle of abuse this thread wouldn't exist.
After her and my dad split yeah. She bounced from relationship to relationship up until about 3 or 4 years ago when she reconnected with an old friend from high school. He’s a genuinely nice guy who’s done a lot to help me personally. So i really want to make sure she’d be down for it without potentially shooting myself in the foot. I have a lot to lose if I’m misreading this situation
And also even if she broke the cycle of sexual abuse she definitely created a whole new cycle of hypochondria and munchausens and munchausen’s by proxy. Like even if she didn’t try to diddle me she has gaslighted me my whole life and faked being deathly ill on a pretty regular basis over the years. Like everything from emphysema to MS.
From what I can tell from emdr is I want to have sex with my mom because I've seen her have sex with her brother. It's all really vague because I must've been really young. When I tell her I want to have sex with her or tell her I have neverending sexual thoughts about her or sexual dreams about her she calls me an "ishy creep"
Wait, you saw your mom fuck your uncle? Damn that’s intense. Kinda reminds of my best friend. He/“she” thinks that he’s/“she’s” a product of incest between his/“her” bio mom/legal sister and bio uncle/legal brother. He was adopted and raised by his grandma, hence why I have the biological and legal modifiers
She was traumatised for life but raised you to have a good life, much better mental health than she had herself. Everyone has problems and every mother manipulates their children emotionally as they grow up, especially single moms, too many fucked up people fuck up the next generation and you escaped that with mild temptations from early childhood. She probably never learned about boundaries. Also, many abused females just think men are all abusive. Also, you story made me hard so the jews definitely broke my dick with their incest porn.
I mean, she did a pretty shorty job with me more than my brother and sister. I’m currently high as sin talking about wanting to fuck my mom to total strangers on the internet.
But in your honest opinion should I try to go for it or just leave it be and find satisfaction in a normal relationship?
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Lots of normal people have incest fetishes, especially in this god forsaken imageboard. Just keep it private. Don't fuck your mom.
Should I at least settle for trying to finding and keeping nudes of her? Because I won’t lie I’d be plenty happy if just fapping to the actual image of her body. Not just the vague memories I have from when I showered with her back when I was 4.
Yes "help " her update her phone and PC.
congrats, your mom is a coomer and you were raised incestuously with no sexual boundaries.
The best solution is to not tempt yourself even more but I understand the urges and how far one woulg go to satisfy them. Just think about the worst possible outcome that could happen (with post nut clarity) and decide if it's worth it.
I mean, it took some serious career setbacks for me to learn to pretend to be mostly normal and harmless.
Yes. But too young to have full memory's about this. Emdr just points to it. I asked my mom if she fucked get brother in front of me and her response was "I love you". So strange
Not even sure what ur trying to say. Do u?
This is what the future that the jews want for everyone.
I’m thinking about how I want to nut to a picture of her tits and face all covered in cum. Pretend it’s mine. Imagine her just licking it up and savoring its taste. Telling me how much she loves me and that every other woman is a waste of time and vastly inferior to her in every way
Force yourself on her. Not even joking . What goes around comes around
Or imagine drugging her, stripping her, tying her spread eagle to a table. Pulling her head all the way back so her throat is wide open so I can just bust a fat nut in her throat and listen to her gag and choke.
Truth be told, there's nothing wrong with incest as an adult as long as you can both handle it emotionally, but what your mom did to you as a kid strongly suggests pedophilia. From what you told me, she's not a great person overall, so this isn't that surprising.
You should talk to her about what she did as a kid, and why she did it. Tell her to just be honest.
You can have sex with her if you want, it seems like you both really want to. Just make sure you're prepared for the potential consequences.
Or the thought of using all of my strength to pin her to the ground. Fucking face down, using a knife to cut her pants open and just forcing myself into her asshole. Make her scream and beg for mercy as I make her ass stretch and tear and bleed. Then once she’s weakened from that struggle lay her on her back, pin her down by kneeling down over her chest and just forcing my cock down her throat. Make her pass out from my cock alone.
What does your mom look like? pics?
Shut the fuck up coomer. That's awful advice. Incest is not good in any form.
I’m kind of paranoid about approaching her about it now that she’s remarried to someone she’s likely stayed faithful to. Like it would be far less of a gamble if she was single and desperate. But I mean, either way all it takes is something being misunderstood or me totally misremembering everything that happened and everyone in my family would think I’m a total predator.
Go thump your Bible somewhere else christfag.
Marriage don't mean shit.
Gay
In that case, I wouldn't. Don't be a homewrecker, especially not to your own mother.
But I mean given her nature she just kinda does it on her own. At least she did with my dad.
Nice pasta, gave me a boner, how much out of 10 is your mom?
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
>Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact
Incest=good
Cheating=bad
Pls explain
It boils down to ethics really, as you risk hurting her family. She might ruin it, but don't fall into the false rationalization pit.
Calling incest bad makes me a Christfag? What kind of inverted reality do you live in faggot?
>rape mom
>"NOO MOMMY GROOMED ME"
slide back into her vagina before you become a tranny,mental disorder is already here
Except there’s a difference between a kid being curious about someone’s body and doing what they could to explore it, even though they knew it was inappropriate vs the adult in the situation being so callously oblivious to the point that it begs the question if they allowed it to happen. Like the fact that she never seemed to be woken up by even by constant prodding and super intense groping and poking and rubbing makes me think she just kind of let it happen. What I want to know is why. Was it general stupidity or carelessness or did she want it and actively encourage it?
Incestuous mother with no boundaries. There doesn't need to by a why.
I'm sorry. I assumed that was your religion. What religion are u here to preach to us?
Like if we were holding each other so that we were face to face i would pretty much guaranteed to be trying to finger her ass or pussy. Like there were even a few times where I was able to get underneath her pajamas and pretty much get a nice, good feel of her asshole. Like straight up had my hand right between her cheeks rubbing her asshole for a solid minute before she turned over and pretended that she was asleep. After which id press my boner into her butt and grab one of her tits
Which I mean there’s no way someone would be sleeping through that. Someone rubbing their asshole, feeling their dick up against their butt cheek, and a hand on their breast. Like there’s no way anyone would sleep through that.
If you want to know why, all you need to do is ask. /thread
But I mean to get more the point if I want a direct answer, how should I bring it up? Like I don’t wanna open with “hey do you ever have any memories of me groping you in bed when I was a kid?” Because that’s an admission of guilt that I know would freak her the fuck out if she had genuinely been sleeping and hadn’t noticed it. But if she did notice it I’m not sure she’d ever admit to it because how could you admit to something like that? Like I have no idea how to bring it up and get the outcome I’m looking for.
Imho being direct and honest is the only way to hear what you're trying to hear. The answer is either yes or no, isnt it?
Yeah but if she genuinely didn’t notice it I would hate to admit that I was naturally so predatory at such a young age. Like imagine your adult son he groped you in your sleep when he was kid?
The key to this all is that you were a child. She could have scolded you at the time, but she didnt. Like you said, no one sleeps through vigorous action on erogenous zones. You just have to segue into the conversation about sleeping in the same bed and its ez mode. Be creative son