Why are young men so terrified of sex?

i'm in my mid 30s so i grew up when the internet was very different. i was a social autist long before the internet became this

Because women are fat and unattractive. Not worth the effort at all.

I was a khv incel for 19 years so I grew into being uncomfortable with physical contact and feared that I'd ruin the kiss/sex with my non-existent experience, and wanting to avoid this and similar shame, I decided it best that I be a volcel.
of course then you also have the problem with the relationship dynamic favoring females over males, so I'd be blamed if something bad happened or would be forced to be the one to act in the face of danger, which is something someone of my stature (5'2 manlet here) will not be able to properly do. would also mention that a divorce after marriage is a possibility and I'll be damned if I have to legally give up 50% of my materials and wealth just because of it.

The vast majority sure are, the rest are just low iq cum dumpsters.

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Is there any way that we can lift the shame on male virginity?
I only want to give mine to a girl I love and who is fully committed to me
And I'm fucking proud of that

Cause I am terrified of having sex with someone or date and they come back and randomly accuse me of something false and ruin my life. Worse, I have children or adopt with her and she does this and I lose them.

I was accused online of sexual misconduct and metoo'd basically ruined my life for a few months and honestly makes me never want to date women anymore IRL.

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All of my ugly friends have had sex dozens of times and here I am with absolutely no one interested in me even though I've tried for over 20 years. This article is completely opposite of everything

what's so funny? in a most original sense

Had a similar experience. I guess its because shed run her mouth that my dick is small idk

Let me guess.
It's everything, except women themselves.

Nothing to do with women's hypergamous nature and how you either are top 85th percentile at every thing (height, penis size, fitness, salary, etc.) or you're no good and will be dropped as soon as she finds someone else, if she even deems you to be worthy of her attention.
Also nothing to do with women ignoring any guy who isn't Chad and therefore making the average guy feel like he doesn't even exist, not to speak about the ugly guys, who will be mocked and derided for being ugly even by women uglier than them.

But no, it's because of porn.

Its social media.

It's normal to be anxious about sex the first time you do it. No one is born a sex chad, you have to learn how to shag good. Best way is to fuck some roastie for a summer and just be clinical about what does and doesnt feel good.

But now imagine being anxious about sex and then know that there are cameras, microphones, and other listening devices.

If you are a man with a less than impressive member, it may get spread around as a rumor, but now social media will make sure all your friends know you have a small dick.

But that's ok, because it just means more sexual partners for me

>90% of modern females are hypergamous snakes
>90% of modern females
>90% of
>modern females
>90%
It's neither only 90% nor a modern phenomenon.

I feel bad for people who have never fucked a whore

Yah you get a little gross feeling sometimes knowing how much they slept around, but whores have experience and can turn you from someone that sucks at sex to a sex chad

I'm not scared of sex, I like it and I want to do it. but I want to do it with a romantic partner that I can connect with on more than just a sexual level. not some bimbo i met 30 minutes ago who just wants a quick fuck because maybe she'll regret it and i'll go to jail for rape.

*BRRRRRRRRRRR*
PUSSY ALERT
*BRRRRRRRRRRR*

What does shagging some chick for fun have to do with the fact she has slept with a couple of other guys?

I can ALMOST understand not wanting to marry someone with a kill count over 3, but if you are just gonna fuck and you use protection seriously what is the big deal?

not sex, just 3DPD

>sex chad
>fucking whores
yeah, no...

The last half dozen women (and one gay guy) have outright asked me to choke them. I'm a virgin robot who has never even made out with a woman. Women have this huge expectation of men as fuck machines whose main worth is getting them off, and if you can't provide that "service" they'll find someone who will. Women are so sexually experienced that they have inflated expectations of what a normal level of sexual experience looks like. The #1 reason I've been turned down by women is because I wasn't "intimate," "aggressive," or "kinky" enough.

How do you think you get good at sex user?

Like everything else in life its practice. You think you know what it takes to be chad with your pussy ass "I only want to sleep with the women I love"? Get the fuck out of here virgin

Your post makes no sense, how are you a virgin and know what women want?

I'm confused

Because expectations for men are higher than ever? Because women became so toxic and psychotic they would ruin your life with false accusations just because THEY FELT LIKE IT? No way, it must be porn! Let's demonize men even more for trying to maintain their sexual urges.

>men won't fuck me and give me their money because they watch porn and therefore probably anxious because of their small penis

>it couldn't possibly be because women fuck like rabbits, possibly catching awful STDs and have so much mindless sex that they can't form proper relationships and men have some standards and don't want worthless damaged goods

I agree, but you're just not a chad for fucking women who put it out so easily...

because young men have small cocks

>Because expectations for men are higher than ever?
Only virgins believe this, just a rationalization to explain why you cant get laid.
if anything it's actually easier now because there are less social boundaries in the way that lead to you having sex

I don't want the bitch catching feelings. They can't separate fucking from love.

Didnt mean to imply you are a chad for fucking roasties. But roasties are good practice and a good way to get over sex anxiety. That's all I meant

no girl to get into. i have anxeity when i went to the bar, sweating drinking beer.

Depends how long ago you're talking. Boomers learned about it from porno and dirty magazines. Before that, I'd imagine a lot of people learned on the fly. And in the way way back, you'd just see your parents fuck as a kid and learn about it that way. In any family in history that couldn't afford separate rooms for kids, there would come a night when your dad would tell you to look the other way and roll over onto your mom. Eventually you'd look and you'd see it.

A lot of modern people would think that's gross. But how much better is it for our kids to learn about sex by watching coked-up "actors" do depraved fantastical shit to each other? Rather than watching two real people who actually care about each other fuck in a non-fetishistic way?

>if anything it's actually easier now because there are less social boundaries in the way that lead to you having sex
Those "social boundaries" were the reason sub-8 males (a.k.a. not Chad) were even able to get girls in the first place - they prevented Chad from hoarding all the pussy.
Now that it's no rules free-for-all there's nothing stopping Chad from fucking every bitch he sees in front of him - and why would an average girl pay attention to an average guy when she can get dicked by Chad whenever she wants? It's extremely hard for an average male to compete.

because its scary, duh

Dunno, but I've been falsely accused of pregging someone.

#metoo, #believeher are enough reasons...

As far as physical sensation goes, sex isn't as good as masturbating to porn.

It only becomes better once you take into account things like the intimacy and validation it provides that masturbation can not supply. Which is why things like meaningless hookup sex or paying for it isn't worth it at all

Are you sure you quoted the right guy?
Nowhere in my post did I mention promiscuousness.

For me it's my phimosis and my dick is used to the grip of my hand which probably means I'll go limp during the real thing.

Yes when it happens to you, it makes it more apparent that dating and relationships in the US are a joke.

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Poor economic standings leads to a feeling of inadequacy

stop fucking elementary schoolers

Back in the day your dad would just take you to bang a whore when you were old enough, it might still be like this in some places.

Nowadays that'd be politically incorrect, so they just leave boys to jerk off for two decades while girl their age ride the caroussel, and then get mad when these guys don't know how to be intimate with a woman when they are in their late 20's

because they get no pussy and they know woman are sluts whos body count is over 20

A reasonable and realistic perspective and I say that because it mirrors my own. Do you think you'll ever stop being a volcel?

I know my dick is small. If she calls it small and laughs my first time I WILL rope.

i dont want sex retarded fucking coomer normalfags, i just want to be comforted once in my miserable lonely life, just once thats all i ask for

>le shocked normie face

fuck off

COOOOOF! I fucking goofed on all of you! Coofy Coofy Coof! OH GOD I'M COOFING!!!!!1!1!1!

Also young men aren't afraid of sex, they are afraid of the now many consequences of it.

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Because I'm bad at it and I hate disappointing people

I read the article, and it does makes sense.
Men are so terrified of women judgment and rejection that we choose not to engage romantically.
I've kissed only 3 girls, as a 25 year old this is a ridiculously low number. I'm a bad kisser, I know it, so I avoid situations that will lead to kissing so I wont be mocked by the girl.
Women expect the guy to known what he is doing, that is why they all go for chads.
If you are bad a soccer why would you go to the team tryouts? It is better to stay at home and masturbate until you don't have energy to go outside chasing dreams that will never come true.

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but whores only fuck with sexually experienced men you dumb retard

Holy shit you're fucking retarded. The problem isn't the act of sex itself but the lead up to it. Obviously for a virgin there can be anxiety on both trying to get with a woman and progress to the sexual act, and the sexual act itself.

because women are evil and only bring pain to men

I'm not afraid, women are.

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Vaginas look like a scary monster with it mouth wide open.

well said.

i'm interested in the photo you posted. what is it from?

It is modern. Between 2002 and 2013 lifetime sex partners for the top 20% of men increased by 25% and for the top 5% of men it increased by 38%. Yet, the average didn't change, because more men were going without sex. Sex has become less equal.

This. Unfortunately, women want to be the bimbos.

Why wont you fuck traps like me? Double the fun, I know how to get you off and you wont be as anxious as with a biological woman

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pure kino